If I am lead to hard places, a low valley of a job I hate, or something of the sort, I will dialogue with God about this.
If I live out my dreams, and life blossoms in my favor, I will thank God profusely.
If my wife gets sick, and it pains me, I will cry out to God.
If I fall and fail at what I strive for in life, I will tell the Lord of mercy about my shortcomings.
I think it it is less about what I do in life, and more about the dialogues God and I will have.
In this way, my circumstances are not to be prized, For God is my prize and my portion forever.
“Whom have I in heaven but you?
And earth has nothing I desire besides you.
"My flesh and my heart may fail,
but God is the strength of my heart
and my portion forever. “Paslm 73:25-26